{"id":116,"date":"2024-08-30T15:07:00","date_gmt":"2024-08-30T13:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/?p=116"},"modified":"2026-02-23T13:00:00","modified_gmt":"2026-02-23T12:00:00","slug":"dziecko-wobec-smierci-i-zaloby-a-szelagowska-mironiuk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/?p=116","title":{"rendered":"\u201eDziecko wobec \u015bmierci i \u017ca\u0142oby\u201d A. Szel\u0105gowska \u2013 Mironiuk"},"content":{"rendered":"<\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/IMG_20240814_180854072-scaled.jpg\" style=\"clear: left;float: left;margin-bottom: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"3072\" data-original-width=\"4080\" height=\"301\" src=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/IMG_20240814_180854072-scaled.jpg\" width=\"400\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\">Przedstawiam Wam kolejn\u0105 ksi\u0105\u017ck\u0119, kt\u00f3ra porusza temat szczeg\u00f3lnie wymagaj\u0105cy: <b>\u201eDziecko wobec \u015bmierci i \u017ca\u0142oby\u201d <\/b>autorstwa Angeliki Szel\u0105gowskiej \u2013 Mironiuk. I tutaj mam do napisania same pochlebne s\u0142owa \ud83d\udc99&nbsp;<\/div>\n<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Ksi\u0105\u017cka napisana bardzo starannie, jednocze\u015bnie <b>konkretnie i z du\u017c\u0105 delikatno\u015bci\u0105<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span><!--more--><\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"color: #ffa400\">Autorka porusza nast\u0119puj\u0105ce tematy:<\/span><\/b>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left\">\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>Dlaczego nam doros\u0142ym tak trudno jest rozmawia\u0107<\/b> z dzie\u0107mi <b>o \u015bmierci<\/b> \u2013 mo\u017cliwe przyczyny, kt\u00f3re pomagaj\u0105 u\u015bwiadomi\u0107 sobie nad czym warto popracowa\u0107.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Kr\u00f3tki opis <b>jak dzieci w r\u00f3\u017cnym wieku rozumiej\u0105 \u015bmier\u0107<\/b> \u2013 bardzo pomocne informacje dla rodzic\u00f3w.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>5 etap\u00f3w procesu \u017ca\u0142oby<\/b> \u2013 opisane w odniesieniu do prze\u017cywania \u017ca\u0142oby przez dzieci.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Zwr\u00f3cenie uwagi na <b>spos\u00f3b m\u00f3wienia o \u015bmierci w rodzinie<\/b> dziecka \u2013 autorka wyja\u015bnia dlaczego tabuizacja tematu \u015bmierci jest tak bardzo szkodliwa dla dzieci.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>Opis czynnik\u00f3w<\/b>, od kt\u00f3rych mo\u017ce zale\u017ce\u0107 <b>w jaki spos\u00f3b dziecko prze\u017cyje \u017ca\u0142ob\u0119<\/b> \u2013 rodzice dowiaduj\u0105 si\u0119 na co konkretnie nale\u017cy zwr\u00f3ci\u0107 uwag\u0119.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Mo\u017cliwo\u015b\u0107 <b>po\u017cegnania ze zmar\u0142ym <\/b>\u2013 podkre\u015blenie jak wa\u017cne jest domkni\u0119cie wa\u017cnych etap\u00f3w w \u017cyciu, cho\u0107by symboliczne.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Wskaz\u00f3wki <b>w jaki spos\u00f3b poinformowa\u0107 dziecko o \u015bmierci<\/b>.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>Konkretne wskaz\u00f3wki<\/b> jak rozmawia\u0107 z dzieckiem o \u015bmierci i na co zwr\u00f3ci\u0107 uwag\u0119 \u2013 przede wszystkim m\u00f3wimy prawd\u0119 (dostosowan\u0105 do wieku).<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Podpowied\u017a w jaki spos\u00f3b <b>my doro\u015bli mo\u017cemy przygotowa\u0107 si\u0119 do wsparcia dziecka<\/b> w procesie \u017ca\u0142oby \u2013 lista bardzo pomocnych pyta\u0144 do autorefleksji.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>Dziecko na pogrzebie <\/b>\u2013 zabiera\u0107 czy nie zabiera\u0107?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\">Jest to ksi\u0105\u017cka, kt\u00f3r\u0105 naprawd\u0119 warto przeczyta\u0107. Temat \u015bmierci jest w naszej kulturze nadal cz\u0119sto odsuwany, spychany, ignorowany. <b>A przecie\u017c ka\u017cdy, kto ma dzieci, pr\u0119dzej czy p\u00f3\u017aniej zetknie si\u0119 z jakim\u015b pytaniem na temat ko\u0144ca \u017cycia<\/b>.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\">Mo\u017ce to b\u0119dzie przy okazji ogl\u0105dania filmu \u201eKr\u00f3l Lew\u201d, mo\u017ce odej\u015bcie ukochanego zwierzaka, a mo\u017ce b\u0119dzie chodzi\u0142o o \u015bmier\u0107 babci najlepszego kolegi.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>Od naszej reakcji b\u0119dzie zale\u017ca\u0142o czy dziecko w przysz\u0142o\u015bci <\/b>znajdzie w sobie odwag\u0119 (i ochot\u0119!),<b> aby zwr\u00f3ci\u0107 si\u0119 do nas z kolejnym trudnym pytaniem<\/b>. Warto wi\u0119c, \u017ceby\u015bmy ten temat przepracowali w swojej g\u0142owie nieco wcze\u015bniej.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/IMG_20240822_110839024-scaled.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"3072\" data-original-width=\"4080\" height=\"482\" src=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/IMG_20240822_110839024-scaled.jpg\" width=\"640\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/IMG_20240822_110851079-scaled.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"3072\" data-original-width=\"4080\" height=\"482\" src=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/IMG_20240822_110851079-scaled.jpg\" width=\"640\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Przedstawiam Wam kolejn\u0105 ksi\u0105\u017ck\u0119, kt\u00f3ra porusza temat szczeg\u00f3lnie wymagaj\u0105cy: \u201eDziecko wobec \u015bmierci i \u017ca\u0142oby\u201d autorstwa Angeliki Szel\u0105gowskiej \u2013 Mironiuk. 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