{"id":193,"date":"2018-02-09T03:08:00","date_gmt":"2018-02-09T02:08:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/?p=193"},"modified":"2026-02-23T13:01:49","modified_gmt":"2026-02-23T12:01:49","slug":"okiem-psychologa-bajka-ktora-rowniez-ciebie-moze-sklonic-do-refleksji","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/?p=193","title":{"rendered":"#Okiem psychologa: Bajka, kt\u00f3ra r\u00f3wnie\u017c Ciebie mo\u017ce sk\u0142oni\u0107 do refleksji"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Dzisiaj bajka, kt\u00f3ra sk\u0142ania do postawienia sobie szczeg\u00f3lnie wa\u017cnego pytania. I jak si\u0119 wydaje – bardzo aktualnego. Co jest wa\u017cniejsze: cieszenie si\u0119 tera\u017aniejszo\u015bci\u0105 <\/b>czy<\/span> planowanie przysz\u0142o\u015bci? <\/span>Odkrywamy, \u017ce odpowied\u017a nie jest wcale taka prosta.<\/p>\n

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\n\u201eOdlot\u201d<\/b> \u2013 szacunek dla starszych, cieszenie si\u0119 tera\u017aniejszo\u015bci\u0105 vs \u017cycie przesz\u0142o\u015bci\u0105 \/ przysz\u0142o\u015bci\u0105, czym jest mi\u0142o\u015b\u0107?<\/span><\/div>\n

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\nJak pokaza\u0107 mi\u0142o\u015b\u0107 w 15 minut? Wydawa\u0142oby si\u0119 niemo\u017cliwe, a jednak! Tw\u00f3rcom uda\u0142o si\u0119 to wy\u015bmienicie. Pierwszy kwadrans bajki to pi\u0119kna, m\u0105dra i niezwykle wzruszaj\u0105ca historia dwojga zakochanych w sobie ludzi, Carla i Eli. Ela od dziecka marzy\u0142a o podr\u00f3\u017cy do Ameryki Po\u0142udniowej, jednak zawsze pojawia\u0142o si\u0119 co\u015b wa\u017cniejszego i w rezultacie nie uda\u0142o jej si\u0119 zrealizowa\u0107 tego marzenia. Wa\u017cniejsze okazywa\u0142y si\u0119 drobne codzienne sprawy, ma\u0142e rado\u015bci kt\u00f3re wype\u0142nia\u0142y \u017cycie Carla i Eli.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
\n<\/a>Ten w\u0105tek sk\u0142ania do refleksji co jest tak naprawd\u0119 w \u017cyciu wa\u017cne? Realizacja jednego du\u017cego marzenia czy cieszenie si\u0119 codzienno\u015bci\u0105 i odnajdywanie powod\u00f3w do rado\u015bci w ka\u017cdym dniu?<\/span><\/b> Koncentracja na tym co dopiero mo\u017ce nadej\u015b\u0107 w przysz\u0142o\u015bci, czy prze\u017cywanie \u017cycia w pe\u0142ni tu i teraz?<\/div>\n
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\nPo \u015bmierci Elli, Carl b\u0119d\u0105cy ju\u017c w sile wieku –  postanawia spe\u0142ni\u0107 marzenie ukochanej \u017cony i wybiera si\u0119 w podr\u00f3\u017c. Przypadek sprawia, \u017ce w wyprawie towarzyszy mu o\u015bmioletni, lekko irytuj\u0105cy Russel. To zderzenie pokole\u0144 jest cenn\u0105 ilustracj\u0105 r\u00f3\u017cnic, jakie wyst\u0119puj\u0105 pomi\u0119dzy dzie\u0107mi i starszymi osobami, ale co najwa\u017cniejsze \u2013 ukazuje, \u017ce porozumienie jest mo\u017cliwe i warto o nie zadba\u0107.<\/span><\/b> Seniorzy, kt\u00f3rzy mog\u0105 wydawa\u0107 si\u0119 lekko dziwaczni, z ca\u0142\u0105 mas\u0105 niezrozumia\u0142ych przyzwyczaje\u0144, ale tak naprawd\u0119 po prostu kochani i bliscy. Osoby godne szacunku, od kt\u00f3rych mo\u017cna si\u0119 wiele nauczy\u0107 i dowiedzie\u0107. Jest to niezwykle cenna refleksja, kt\u00f3r\u0105 warto p\u00f3\u017aniej rozwin\u0105\u0107 w rozmowie z dzieckiem.<\/div>\n
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Jednak \u201eOdlot\u201d to bajka, kt\u00f3ra mo\u017ce sk\u0142oni\u0107 do refleksji r\u00f3wnie\u017c doros\u0142ych.<\/span><\/b> Prezentuje r\u00f3\u017cne perspektywy czasowe i to w\u0142a\u015bnie uwa\u017cam za jej szczeg\u00f3ln\u0105 warto\u015b\u0107. Pozwala nam zastanowi\u0107 si\u0119 nad w\u0142asnym postrzeganiem czasu, sk\u0142ania do rozwa\u017ca\u0144 nad tym jak prze\u017cywamy swoje \u017cycie \u2013 czy potrafimy cieszy\u0107 si\u0119 bie\u017c\u0105c\u0105 chwil\u0105, czy mo\u017ce wci\u0105\u017c wspominamy minione czasy?<\/p>\n

Po odej\u015bciu \u017cony, Carl \u017cyje przesz\u0142o\u015bci\u0105 i stara si\u0119 za wszelk\u0105 cen\u0119 zrealizowa\u0107 marzenie Eli. I tu pojawia si\u0119 kolejny istotny w\u0105tek: rozdarcie mi\u0119dzy mi\u0142o\u015bci\u0105 do os\u00f3b kt\u00f3re ju\u017c odesz\u0142y i przywi\u0105zaniem do przesz\u0142o\u015bci, a otwieraniem si\u0119 na nowe osoby, kt\u00f3re mog\u0105 potrzebowa\u0107 naszych uczu\u0107 w czasie tera\u017aniejszym.<\/span><\/b>
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MO\u017bE ZAINTERESUJE CI\u0118 R\u00d3WNIE\u017b:<\/span> <\/b><\/span>6 bajek, kt\u00f3re pomog\u0105 Twojemu dziecku zrozumie\u0107 \u015bwiat<\/span><\/span><\/a>
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