{"id":210,"date":"2016-11-11T14:23:00","date_gmt":"2016-11-11T13:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/?p=210"},"modified":"2026-02-23T13:02:00","modified_gmt":"2026-02-23T12:02:00","slug":"jak-mowic-do-dziecka-zeby-rozmowa-nie-zamienila-sie-w-klotnie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/?p=210","title":{"rendered":"Jak m\u00f3wi\u0107 do dziecka, \u017ceby rozmowa nie zamieni\u0142a si\u0119 w k\u0142\u00f3tni\u0119?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"font-size: medium;text-align: right\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height: 150%\">\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<a href=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEiWc9lYi0HJmrXTbeDE3SlxVa7qQ-2GbJV-dUmJtXQ2Jss9Z_3odJAafKGD2OGi8hlUkKpH5msmrsXK6kr-VoEUHvC963yTTieFR5Ftb3kmVVF0VRDPAa7uGQZy9oVXW1EyX8AbTES7JxQ\/s1600\/Rysunek+mniejszy2.jpg\" style=\"clear: left;float: left;margin-bottom: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEiWc9lYi0HJmrXTbeDE3SlxVa7qQ-2GbJV-dUmJtXQ2Jss9Z_3odJAafKGD2OGi8hlUkKpH5msmrsXK6kr-VoEUHvC963yTTieFR5Ftb3kmVVF0VRDPAa7uGQZy9oVXW1EyX8AbTES7JxQ\/s1600\/Rysunek+mniejszy2.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p><span style=\", serif;line-height: 150%\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b><i>&#8211; Uspok\u00f3j si\u0119!<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height: 150%\">\n<span style=\", serif;line-height: 150%\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b><i>&#8211; Nie<br \/>\nprzeszkadzaj, gdy rozmawiam.<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height: 150%\">\n<span style=\", serif;line-height: 150%\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><b><i>&#8211; Uwa\u017caj, bo zepsujesz\u2026<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height: 150%\">\n<span style=\", serif;line-height: 150%\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height: 150%;text-align: justify\">\n<span style=\", serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\">Ka\u017cdy rodzic doskonale<br \/>\nwie, \u017ce <b>niefortunnie dobrane s\u0142owa<\/b> mog\u0105 bardzo szybko <b>doprowadzi\u0107 do sprzeciwu<\/b><br \/>\ndziecka i w rezultacie <b>zaprzepa\u015bci\u0107 szans\u0119 na spokojny wiecz\u00f3r<\/b>.&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\", serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\", serif\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<b style=\"color: red;, serif;font-size: x-large\">Poznaj 5 zasad, kt\u00f3re pozwol\u0105 Ci unikn\u0105\u0107 k\u0142\u00f3tni z dzieckiem<\/b><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height: 150%;text-align: justify\">\n<span style=\", serif\"><span style=\"color: red;font-size: large\"><b><\/b><\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<!--more--><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: right\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<span style=\", serif;line-height: 115%\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large\"><b><span style=\"color: orange\"><br \/>1. Daj dziecku wyb\u00f3r<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<\/div>\n<ul>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/koniczyna2.jpg\" style=\"clear: left;float: left;margin-bottom: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"94\" data-original-width=\"83\" src=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/koniczyna2.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Nawet <b>najmniejszy, pozornie nieistotny wyb\u00f3r <\/b>jest dla<br \/>\ndziecka <b>szans\u0105 rozszerzania kontroli nad swoim \u017cyciem<\/b>. Stanowi doskona\u0142e<br \/>\n<b>\u0107wiczenie w wypowiadaniu w\u0142asnych s\u0105d\u00f3w<\/b> oraz <b>podejmowaniu decyzji<\/b>.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Zamiast: \u201eNatychmiast we\u017a si\u0119 za sprz\u0105tanie\u201d,<br \/>\npowiedz: <b><span style=\"color: #cc0000\">\u201ePotrzebuj\u0119 pomocy w sprz\u0105taniu. Wolisz wyci\u0105ga\u0107 ubrania z pralki czy<br \/>\nrozwiesza\u0107 je na suszarce?\u201d<\/span><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<div class=\"MsoListParagraph\">\n<span style=\"font-size: 12.0pt;line-height: 115%\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<span style=\", serif;line-height: 115%\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large\"><b><span style=\"color: orange\">2. Udzielaj wskaz\u00f3wek z szacunkiem dla dzieci\u0119cych<br \/>\nzmaga\u0144<\/span><\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<\/div>\n<ul>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/koniczyna2.jpg\" style=\"clear: left;float: left;margin-bottom: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"94\" data-original-width=\"83\" src=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/koniczyna2.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>Docenianie wysi\u0142ku dziecka<\/b> pozwala mu <b>nabra\u0107<br \/>\nzaufania we w\u0142asne mo\u017cliwo\u015bci<\/b> i daje <b>odwag\u0119 do samodzielnego pokonywania<br \/>\ntrudno\u015bci.<\/p>\n<p><\/b><\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Zamiast: \u201eOjej, znowu niestarannie pokolorowa\u0142e\u015b<br \/>\nrysunek, w og\u00f3le nie trzymasz si\u0119 linii. Masz po\u0142amane kredki, nic dziwnego \u017ce<br \/>\nnie wychodzi.\u201d, powiedz: <b><span style=\"color: #cc0000\">\u201eKolorowanie mo\u017ce by\u0107 trudne.Czasami pomaga, gdy si\u0119 zatemperuje kredk\u0119 i u\u0142o\u017cy \u0142okcie na stole&#8221;.&nbsp;<span style=\", serif;font-size: 12pt\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"MsoListParagraph\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<span style=\", serif;line-height: 115%\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large\"><b><span style=\"color: orange\">3. Nie zadawaj zbyt wielu pyta\u0144<\/span><\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<\/div>\n<ul>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/koniczyna2.jpg\" style=\"clear: left;float: left;margin-bottom: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"94\" data-original-width=\"83\" src=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/koniczyna2.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Dziecko <b>mo\u017ce poczu\u0107 si\u0119 atakowane lub onie\u015bmielone<\/b>,<br \/>\ngdy zasypujemy je pytaniami. Czasami samo pytanie \u201eDlaczego jeszcze nie<br \/>\nposprz\u0105ta\u0142e\u015b pokoju?\u201d <b>mo\u017ce wywo\u0142a\u0107<\/b> <b>reakcj\u0119 buntu<\/b>, cho\u0107 dziecko w\u0142a\u015bnie planowa\u0142o zabra\u0107 si\u0119 za robienie porz\u0105dk\u00f3w.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Zamiast \u201eDlaczego jeszcze tego nie zrobi\u0142e\u015b?\u201d, \u201ePo<br \/>\nco wyci\u0105gasz wszystkie zabawki?\u201d, powiedz: <b><span style=\"color: #cc0000\">\u201eWidz\u0119, \u017ce potrzebujesz wi\u0119cej<br \/>\nczasu.\u201d, \u201eWidz\u0119, \u017ce masz nowy pomys\u0142 na zabaw\u0119.\u201d<\/span><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><\/p>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<span style=\"line-height: 115%\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><span style=\", monospace\">MO\u017bE OKA\u017bE SI\u0118 PRZYDATNE:&nbsp;<\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/w-strone-dziecka.blogspot.mx\/2016\/10\/6-krokow-do-samokontroli-czyli-jak.html\" style=\", serif\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: blue\">6 krok\u00f3w do samokontroli, czyli jak poradzi\u0107 sobie z buntem u dziecka?<\/span><\/a><\/span><span style=\", serif;font-size: 12pt\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<span style=\", serif;line-height: 115%\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<span style=\", serif;line-height: 115%\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoListParagraph\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<span style=\", serif;line-height: 115%\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large\"><b><span style=\"color: orange\">4. Udziel informacji, zamiast krytykowa\u0107<\/span><\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<\/div>\n<ul>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/koniczyna2.jpg\" style=\"clear: left;float: left;margin-bottom: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"94\" data-original-width=\"83\" src=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/koniczyna2.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>Czasami dziecko robi co\u015b, poniewa\u017c<\/b> <b>nie wie, \u017ce<br \/>\nistnieje alternatywa.<\/b> Zanim je skrytykujemy, <b>powiedzmy najpierw czego<br \/>\noczekujemy. <\/b>Udzielmy informacji.<\/p>\n<p><\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Zamiast: \u201eNigdy nie przyjdzie ci do g\u0142owy, \u017ceby<br \/>\npom\u00f3c mi w kuchni!\u201d, powiedz <b><span style=\"color: #cc0000\">\u201eBardzo by\u015b mi pom\u00f3g\u0142, gdyby\u015b w\u0142o\u017cy\u0142 dzisiaj<br \/>\nnaczynia do zmywarki.\u201d<\/span><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><\/p>\n<div class=\"MsoListParagraph\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<span style=\", serif;line-height: 115%\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large\"><b><span style=\"color: orange\">5. U\u017cyj jednego s\u0142owa<\/span><\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<\/div>\n<ul>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/koniczyna2.jpg\" style=\"clear: left;float: left;margin-bottom: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"94\" data-original-width=\"83\" src=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/koniczyna2.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Nikt z nas<b> nie lubi d\u0142ugich kaza\u0144<\/b>, szczeg\u00f3lnie<br \/>\nje\u017celi powtarzaj\u0105 si\u0119 one regularnie.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Czasami dziecko o czym\u015b zapomni, w takiej sytuacji<br \/>\n<b>przypomnijmy mu kr\u00f3tkim has\u0142em o co nam chodzi.<\/b> Czasami \u201emniej\u201d znaczy \u201ewi\u0119cej\u201d.<br \/>\n<br \/><span style=\", serif;font-size: 12pt\"><br \/><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Zamiast: \u201eZnowu nie odrobi\u0142a\u015b lekcji! Wci\u0105\u017c tylko<br \/>\nogl\u0105dasz telewizj\u0119, a ja tyle razy ci\u0119 prosz\u0119 \u017ceby\u015b od razu po powrocie do domu<br \/>\nodrabia\u0142a lekcje!\u201d, powiedz: <b><span style=\"color: #cc0000\">\u201eKasia, lekcje.\u201d<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Zamiast: \u201eZnowu nie nakarmi\u0142e\u015b kota. Obiecywa\u0142e\u015b, \u017ce<br \/>\nb\u0119dzie to robi\u0142, a teraz nigdy o nim nie pami\u0119tasz. Na tobie w og\u00f3le nie mo\u017cna polega\u0107.\u201d, powiedz: <b><span style=\"color: #cc0000\">\u201eMicha\u0142, kot\u201d.<\/span><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><\/p>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height: 150%;text-align: justify\">\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height: 150%\">\n<span style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;line-height: 150%\">Pami\u0119tajmy tak\u017ce, \u017ce<br \/>\n<b>nikt z nas nie jest idealny<\/b>. <b>Trudny dzie\u0144 w pracy, korek w drodze do domu<\/b> i<br \/>\n<b>deszczowy dzie\u0144<\/b> w jednym potrafi\u0105 skutecznie przyczyni\u0107 si\u0119 do <b>utraty panowania<br \/>\nnad sob\u0105<\/b>.&nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height: 150%;text-align: center\">\n<span style=\"font-size: x-large\"><span style=\", serif;line-height: 150%\">Nie chodzi o to, \u017ceby by\u0107 idealnym rodzicem,&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\", serif\">ale by\u0107<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height: 150%;text-align: center\">\n<span style=\"font-size: x-large\"><b style=\", serif\"><span style=\"color: red\">rodzicem \u015bwiadomym<\/span><\/b><span style=\", serif\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height: 150%;text-align: justify\">\n<span style=\", serif;line-height: 150%\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height: 150%;text-align: justify\">\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height: 150%\">\n<span style=\", serif;font-size: 14pt\">Je\u017celi wczoraj da\u0142a\u015b<br \/>\nponie\u015b\u0107 si\u0119 emocjom, <\/span><b style=\", serif;font-size: 14pt\">nie szkodzi \u2013 zdarza si\u0119 to ka\u017cdej z nas<\/b><span style=\", serif;font-size: 14pt\">. <\/span><b style=\", serif;font-size: 14pt\">Wa\u017cne, aby<br \/>\ndzisiaj postara\u0107 si\u0119 to naprawi\u0107<\/b><span style=\", serif;font-size: 14pt\"> i <\/span><b style=\", serif;font-size: 14pt\">spr\u00f3bowa\u0107 porozmawia\u0107 w inny spos\u00f3b.&nbsp;<\/b><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Uspok\u00f3j si\u0119! 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