{"id":34,"date":"2024-12-19T00:01:00","date_gmt":"2024-12-18T23:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/?p=34"},"modified":"2026-02-23T12:57:45","modified_gmt":"2026-02-23T11:57:45","slug":"kochac-swoje-dziecko-czyli-o-wyzszosci-prawdy-nad-iluzja-olga-hilger-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/?p=34","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Kocha\u0107 swoje dziecko, czyli o wy\u017cszo\u015bci prawdy nad iluzj\u0105&#8221; Olga Hilger"},"content":{"rendered":"<\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/IMG_20241213_134603728-scaled.jpg\" style=\"clear: left;float: left;margin-bottom: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"3072\" data-original-width=\"4080\" height=\"301\" src=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/IMG_20241213_134603728-scaled.jpg\" width=\"400\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\">Ksi\u0105\u017cka ta ma nieco przewrotny tytu\u0142, ale tak naprawd\u0119 opowiada o tym, \u017ce <b>rodzicielstwo otwiera drog\u0119 do nas samych<\/b>. <b>Prawdziwych.<\/b>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Bo <b>w momencie, gdy stajemy si\u0119 rodzicami opadaj\u0105 maski<\/b>, a stosowane dotychczas strategie radzenia sobie \u2013 cz\u0119sto przestaj\u0105 by\u0107 skuteczne.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span><!--more--><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">\u201eKocha\u0107 swoje dziecko czyli o wy\u017cszo\u015bci prawdy nad iluzj\u0105\u201d to kolejna ju\u017c ksi\u0105\u017cka \u015bwietnej autorki Olgi Hilger. O poprzedniej jej ksi\u0105\u017cce pisa\u0142am tutaj:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/w-strone-dziecka.blogspot.com\/2024\/08\/50-rozmow-ktore-warto-przeprowadzic-z.html\">\u201e50 rozm\u00f3w, kt\u00f3re warto przeprowadzi\u0107 z dzie\u0107mi\u201d (r\u00f3\u017cne tematy + \u0107wiczenia)<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">W swojej nowej ksi\u0105\u017cce autorka zwraca uwag\u0119, \u017ce <b>dzieci wspaniale obna\u017caj\u0105 to wszystko, co sztuczne<\/b> i naprowadzaj\u0105 nas na nasze najs\u0142absze punkty. Ucz\u0105, \u017ce wszystko ma sw\u00f3j czas i miejsce.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><i><span style=\"font-size: large\">\u201eCz\u0119sto przeszkadza nam w dziecku to, co przeszkadza\u0142o doros\u0142ym w nas, kiedy sami byli\u015bmy dzie\u0107mi. To wszystko jest o nas.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><span style=\"font-size: large\"><i>\u201eWszystko to, czego nie przepracowali\u015bmy ze swojego dzieci\u0144stwa, stanie si\u0119 potem tematem do przepracowania dla naszych dzieci.\u201d<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffa400\"><b>Olga Hilger porusza wiele wa\u017cnych temat\u00f3w:<\/b>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left\">\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Filtry przez jakie patrzymy na swoje dziecko i dlaczego tak si\u0119 dzieje.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Samotno\u015b\u0107 w przeludnionym \u015bwiecie i niedost\u0119pno\u015b\u0107 emocjonalna.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Zbyt wysokie oczekiwania wzgl\u0119dem dzieci oraz magia \u201eprzeci\u0119tno\u015bci\u201d.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Potrzeba kontroli, kt\u00f3ra ma wyr\u00f3wna\u0107 brak poczucia bezpiecze\u0144stwa rodzica.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">\u015awiadome budowanie narracji.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify\">Maski, kt\u00f3re nosimy i z jakich ran one powstaj\u0105.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><i>&nbsp;\u201eMi\u0142o\u015b\u0107 jest przeciwie\u0144stwem l\u0119ku\u201d&nbsp;<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Ksi\u0105\u017cka wydana przez wydawnictwo:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/psychologiadziecka.org\/?_gl=1%2A1t9go3p%2A_up%2AMQ..%2A_gs%2AMQ..%2A_ga%2AMzAyMjEzNzE2LjE3MzQ1NjE5NzM.%2A_ga_YNC7D5F4RS%2AMTczNDU2MTk3Mi4xLjEuMTczNDU2MjY3OC4wLjAuMA..&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiAgoq7BhBxEiwAVcW0LHjTNz1ecxZp_E8oWzRSqW_K-By1wCkpAcv_6DpQ9m1FUtp3noMkWhoC0jAQAvD_BwE\">psychologiadziecka.org<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Dost\u0119pna do kupienia tutaj:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/psychologiadziecka.org\/ksiazki\/kochac-swoje-dziecko-czyli-o-wyzszosci-prawdy-nad-iluzja\/?utm_source=google-PMax&amp;utm_medium=PMax&amp;utm_campaign=PMax&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiAgoq7BhBxEiwAVcW0LHjTNz1ecxZp_E8oWzRSqW_K-By1wCkpAcv_6DpQ9m1FUtp3noMkWhoC0jAQAvD_BwE\">&#8220;Kocha\u0107 swoje 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