{"id":343,"date":"2017-12-11T00:47:00","date_gmt":"2017-12-10T23:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/?p=343"},"modified":"2026-02-23T13:05:01","modified_gmt":"2026-02-23T12:05:01","slug":"jak-nie-wspierac-swojego-dziecka-jezyk-akceptacji","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/?p=343","title":{"rendered":"Jak NIE wspiera\u0107 swojego dziecka? J\u0119zyk akceptacji"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<a href=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/The_Girl_Thinking_Clip_Art.jpg\" style=\"clear: left;float: left;margin-bottom: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"416\" data-original-width=\"416\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/The_Girl_Thinking_Clip_Art.jpg\" width=\"200\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify\">\n<b>Jednym z wa\u017cniejszych zada\u0144 rodzic\u00f3w jest wspieranie dziecka<br \/>\nw rozwoju samodzielno\u015bci<\/b>. Jest to<br \/>\nd\u0142uga droga, a my ka\u017cdego dnia napotykamy sytuacje, kt\u00f3re s\u0105 dla naszych dzieci<br \/>\ntrudne. <b>I ka\u017cdego dnia prowadzimy ze sob\u0105 ten sam dialog:<\/b> <i><span style=\"color: #cc0000\">Czy powinnam interweniowa\u0107? Przecie\u017c sam sobie nie poradzi. Je\u017celi nic<br \/>\nnie zrobi\u0119, to b\u0119dzie cierpia\u0142. Ale przecie\u017c powinien si\u0119 nauczy\u0107.<\/span><\/i> <\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<i><\/i><br \/>\n<!--more--><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<b style=\"font-size: xx-large\">Jak wspiera\u0107 samodzielno\u015b\u0107 dziecka?<\/b><br \/>\n<span style=\"background-color: #fefefe;text-align: justify\"><br \/><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"background-color: #fefefe;text-align: justify\">Warto rozpocz\u0105\u0107 od zastanowienia si\u0119 <\/span><b style=\"text-align: justify\">co m\u00f3wimy, gdy dziecko przychodzi do nas z jakim\u015b problemem.<\/b><span style=\"background-color: #fefefe;text-align: justify\"> Na podstawie bada\u0144 przeprowadzonych w o\u015brodku&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"color: #222222;, sans-serif;font-size: 12pt;line-height: 115%;text-align: justify\">\u201e<\/span><i style=\"text-align: justify\">Caron Foundation&#8221; <\/i><span style=\"background-color: #fefefe;text-align: justify\">w Pensylwanii mo\u017cemy wyr\u00f3\u017cni\u0107 cztery g\u0142\u00f3wne rodzaje komunikat\u00f3w, jakich u\u017cywamy w takich momentach.&nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"background-color: #fefefe\"><br \/>\n<\/span><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\">\n<span style=\"background-color: #fefefe\"><b><br \/><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"background-color: #fefefe\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\">\n<span style=\"background-color: #fefefe\"><b>Komunikat wspieraj\u0105cy<\/b> zawiera w sobie trzy podstawowe elementy, kt\u00f3re maj\u0105 na celu pom\u00f3c dziecku samodzielnie znale\u017a\u0107 rozwi\u0105zanie w trudnej sytuacji przy jednoczesnym wsparciu rodzica. Co wa\u017cne, granice pomocy udzielonej przez doros\u0142ego ustalane s\u0105 przez dziecko. <b>Dlatego pami\u0119tajmy, \u017ce jest to optymalny rodzaj komunikatu w kontakcie ze starszymi dzie\u0107mi.&nbsp;<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"background-color: #fefefe\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"background: #FEFEFE;line-height: normal\">\n<span style=\"text-align: justify\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"background: #FEFEFE;line-height: normal\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<a href=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEjA4DOnjNbuTJhNzEvBJAXm2PFoKQJ1vMOc_lM4y3d80izZvmO5SY2EOgjTYy9FgVnllpTWRjcGePU8vXzjzXBTctptxm686XXl0-1ffHL7679z-pJekRxQm4SZPx9ekxg1MgWG4OzAjts\/s640\/Komunikat+wspieraj%25C4%2585cy.png\" style=\"margin-left: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"800\" data-original-width=\"800\" height=\"640\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEjA4DOnjNbuTJhNzEvBJAXm2PFoKQJ1vMOc_lM4y3d80izZvmO5SY2EOgjTYy9FgVnllpTWRjcGePU8vXzjzXBTctptxm686XXl0-1ffHL7679z-pJekRxQm4SZPx9ekxg1MgWG4OzAjts\/s640\/Komunikat+wspieraj%25C4%2585cy.png\" width=\"640\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: left\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: justify\">\n<b>W przypadku ma\u0142ych dzieci pomocny mo\u017ce by\u0107 komunikat strukturalizuj\u0105cy, kt\u00f3ry pomaga uporz\u0105dkowa\u0107 sytuacj\u0119 i wyznacza zadania do wykonania<\/b>. Nale\u017cy jednak zachowa\u0107 czujno\u015b\u0107, poniewa\u017c jego wy\u0142\u0105czne stosowanie mo\u017ce prowadzi\u0107 do obni\u017cenia u dziecka poczucia w\u0142asnej warto\u015bci. Nisko b\u0119dzie ocenia\u0107 swoje mo\u017cliwo\u015bci, je\u017celi uzna \u017ce&nbsp;<span style=\"background-color: #fefefe;color: #222222;, sans-serif;font-size: 16px\">\u201e<\/span>mama zawsze wie lepiej&#8221;.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: justify\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: justify\">\nPami\u0119tajmy, \u017ce <b>efektywno\u015b\u0107 stosowanych komunikat\u00f3w jest zale\u017cna od wieku i do\u015bwiadcze\u0144 osoby, kt\u00f3ra zg\u0142asza si\u0119 do nas z problemem<\/b>. Z punktu widzenia poczucia w\u0142asnej warto\u015bci dziecka (ale tak\u017ce doros\u0142ego) z pewno\u015bci\u0105 zawsze niekorzystny b\u0119dzie komunikat karz\u0105cy.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: justify\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: right\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<a href=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/razem4.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"651\" data-original-width=\"632\" src=\"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/razem4.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: left\">\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jednym z wa\u017cniejszych zada\u0144 rodzic\u00f3w jest wspieranie dziecka w rozwoju samodzielno\u015bci. 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