{"id":527,"date":"2017-10-12T21:06:00","date_gmt":"2017-10-12T19:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/?p=527"},"modified":"2026-02-23T13:08:45","modified_gmt":"2026-02-23T12:08:45","slug":"nie-mam-czasu-na-zabawy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/?p=527","title":{"rendered":"Nie mam czasu na zabawy!"},"content":{"rendered":"
\n<\/a><\/div>\n
\nNie jest tajemnic\u0105, \u017ce
\ndzisiejsze tempo \u017cycia zmusza nas do coraz wi\u0119kszego wysi\u0142ku w godzeniu obowi\u0105zk\u00f3w. Wiele z nas zaczyna poranek od
\nszale\u0144czego biegu z przeszkodami, podczas kt\u00f3rego musimy przygotowa\u0107 siebie i
\ndziecko na spotkanie z kolejnym dniem.<\/b> Czasami pojawiaj\u0105 si\u0119 wyrzuty
\nsumienia, gdy pod koniec dnia padamy zm\u0119czone na \u0142\u00f3\u017cko i nie mamy si\u0142y kiwn\u0105\u0107
\npalcem. <\/span><\/div>\n
\n<\/span><\/div>\n

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\n
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\nPrzede wszystkim
\npami\u0119tajmy, \u017ce <\/span>dla naszych dzieci
\nnajwa\u017cniejsza jest jako\u015b\u0107 sp\u0119dzonego wsp\u00f3lnie czasu, a nie jego ilo\u015b\u0107.<\/b> Dzieci
\nw relacjach ze swoimi rodzicami chc\u0105 czu\u0107 si\u0119 wa\u017cne. W\u0142a\u015bnie dlatego
\ntak usilnie staraj\u0105 si\u0119 zwr\u00f3ci\u0107 na siebie uwag\u0119, a jak wiadomo \u2013 <\/span>najskuteczniejsz\u0105 metod\u0105 na zdobycie uwagi
\ndoros\u0142ego jest rozrabianie<\/b>.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n
<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n
\nJak sobie z tym
\nporadzi\u0107?<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n
\n
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\nNajlepszy spos\u00f3b, aby
\numo\u017cliwi\u0107 dziecku zdobycie naszej pozytywnej uwagi, to zabawa. Nie jest to
\n\u017cadne zaskoczenie, prawda? Okazuje si\u0119 jednak, \u017ce zabawa zabawie nier\u00f3wna i sp\u0119dzony wsp\u00f3lnie czas wcale nie musi
\nprzynie\u015b\u0107 oczekiwanych rezultat\u00f3w<\/b>. Warto wi\u0119c pozna\u0107 kilka bardzo wa\u017cnych
\nzasad:<\/span><\/div>\n
\n
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\n1. Kr\u00f3tkie
\ni realne odcinki czasu<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/b><\/div>\n
\n
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\n<\/a>Na pocz\u0105tek warto
\nzastanowi\u0107 si\u0119 ile czasu mo\u017cemy realnie po\u015bwi\u0119ci\u0107 swojemu dziecku w ci\u0105gu dnia.
\nChodzi o czas \u201eEXTRA\u201d<\/b>, kt\u00f3ry nie obejmuje codziennych czynno\u015bci
\ntakich jak ubieranie, k\u0105piel itd. Wi\u0119kszo\u015b\u0107
\npracuj\u0105cych rodzic\u00f3w jest w stanie po\u015bwi\u0119ci\u0107 oko\u0142o 15 \u2013 20 minut raz lub dwa
\nrazy dziennie. <\/b><\/span><\/div>\n
\n
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\n2. Rodzic
\nna wy\u0142\u0105czno\u015b\u0107!<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/b><\/div>\n
\n
<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/div>\n
\nJe\u017celi mamy dwoje
\ndzieci (lub wi\u0119cej) czas zabawy powinien zosta\u0107 wyznaczony dla ka\u017cdego z nich
\nosobno<\/b>. To bardzo wa\u017cne, aby w tym czasie dziecko czu\u0142o, \u017ce nie musi dzieli\u0107
\nsi\u0119 rodzicem z bratem lub siostr\u0105<\/b>. <\/span><\/div>\n
\n
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\n3. Teraz
\njestem tylko dla ciebie<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/b><\/div>\n
\n
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\n<\/a>Czas zabawy to moment,
\nkt\u00f3ry ma nale\u017ce\u0107 wy\u0142\u0105cznie do dziecka. W tym czasie wy\u0142\u0105czamy telefon. Nie
\nspogl\u0105damy jednym okiem na ulubiony serial, nie rozwieszamy prania, nie
\nprzygotowujemy obiadu. Staramy si\u0119 by\u0107 na 100% w tej zabawie razem z dzieckiem.
\n<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n
\n
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\n4. To
\ndziecko jest specjalist\u0105 od zabawy<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/b><\/div>\n
\n
<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/div>\n
\nPozw\u00f3lmy dziecku
\nprzej\u0105\u0107 kontrol\u0119 nad zabaw\u0105, niech wybierze w co chcia\u0142oby si\u0119 pobawi\u0107. Nie
\npoprawiajmy, nie zmieniajmy jego koncepcji zabawy.<\/b> Postarajmy si\u0119 rozlu\u017ani\u0107 i
\nwej\u015b\u0107 do \u015bwiata fantazji wsp\u00f3lnie z dzieckiem. <\/span><\/div>\n
\n
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\n5. Nasz
\nMagiczny Czas!<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/b><\/div>\n
\n
<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/div>\n
\n<\/a>Dzieci uwielbiaj\u0105 robi\u0107
\nz nami co\u015b wa\u017cnego, dlatego dobrze jest celebrowa\u0107 czas wsp\u00f3lnej zabawy i razem
\nz dzieckiem wymy\u015bli\u0107 na t\u0119 okazj\u0119 jak\u0105\u015b wyj\u0105tkow\u0105 nazw\u0119<\/b>. <\/span><\/div>\n
\n
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\n
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\nJe\u017celi czujecie, \u017ce Wasze dziecko potrzebuje sp\u0119dza\u0107 wi\u0119cej czasu z kt\u00f3rym\u015b z Was, to gor\u0105co zach\u0119cam do wypr\u00f3bowania tej metody. <\/span>A je\u017celi rzecz dotyczy bardziej Twojego partnera, to….<\/span><\/div>\n
\n
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\n<\/a><\/div>\n
\n<\/div>\n
\n
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\n… oczywi\u015bcie je\u017celi tata da si\u0119 przekona\u0107 \ud83d\ude09<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
\n<\/div>\n
\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nie jest tajemnic\u0105, \u017ce dzisiejsze tempo \u017cycia zmusza nas do coraz wi\u0119kszego wysi\u0142ku w godzeniu obowi\u0105zk\u00f3w. Wiele z nas zaczyna […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":528,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,27,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-527","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-organizacja","category-tata-i-dziecko","category-zabawa"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/527","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=527"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/527\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":530,"href":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/527\/revisions\/530"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/528"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=527"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=527"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wstronedziecka.pl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=527"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}